The most important definition in calculus is the definition of
the derivative (but it comes in various flavors):
Here is the forward derivative of $f$ at $a$:
$f'(a)=\displaystyle{\lim_{h\to 0}}{\frac{f(a+h)-f(a)}{h}}$
Here is the forward derivative of $f$ at $x$:
$f'(x)=\displaystyle{\lim_{h\to 0}}{\frac{f(x+h)-f(x)}{h}}$
There are still those who have not memorized these definitions. You
need to.